Will My Boyfriend Regret Breaking Up With Me

The end of a relationship is always difficult. Even when you part on good terms or as friends there will always be lingering doubt or moments of regret. For those that are left, that doubt can be even more significant and you may find yourself questioning, “will my boyfriend regret breaking up with me?” Although this is a difficult question to answer, there are some signs that your boyfriend does regret breaking up with you and some things you can do to make it more likely that he will regret leaving you.First, if your boyfriend leaves you the best thing that you can do is to take good care of yourself. Be kind to yourself and reframe this negative as an opportunity to develop as an individual without the influence of or constant concern for someone else. It may sound selfish but the ability to focus inward and make decisions about what is best for just you is the path to moving on and moving forward in your life. Make a plan or create a list of new things you would like to try and commit to participating in activities that bring you joy. If you emerge from this breakup with new goals, new interests and new confidence he is more likely to realize that he was foolish to leave you.If you have been left, there are some indicators that your boyfriend may regret breaking up. If he maintains the same level of communication and still shares his most personal feelings and thoughts with you he is probably missing the support and intimacy that he had when he was with you. If he finds excuses to bump into you, still tries to make plans “as friends,” or asks other people about you he may be having trouble moving on. When you are together, if he still holds your hand or puts his arm around you or resumes the physical intimacy/ closeness you had while dating, he is probably missing you. Finally, if he becomes jealous when you begin seeing someone new there is a good chance that he regrets breaking up with you.Even if the breakup was abrupt or for another person, there is usually some doubt on both sides of the breakup. For the person that is left, the best course of action is to move on, stop blaming yourself and work on becoming even more awesome! If you cannot stop wondering if your boyfriend has regrets, these signs may be your best chance of knowing short of actually asking him directly.